How to keep a cancer man or male
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If his fixation towards his mother is too strong, he could never tear away from her and might show homosexual tendencies. But as his cosmogonic element acts rather strongly, he's more likely to go towards other women, whether or not they are at the image of his mother. If he has not found his maturity in paternity, he'll look for "girls" for whom, in adulthood, he'll be a paternal image - a strongly incestuous one. Such girls will be very much attached to this expert and untiring lover who he is.
One could blame him for preferring quantity to quality; but it's necessary to recognize that women do like him very much and that he understands them better than anyone else does, being psychologically so feminine himself. He guesses women's desires, leading them into a fantasized and magnificent universe. This, however, doesn't necessarily mean that he's fickle and unfaithful.
One can also blame him for being susceptible, for creating extravagant incidents, for engaging himself in intolerable emotional blackmails, and for taking pleasure in childish attitudes and in games of the killer and his victim. Moodiness isn't rare for him, either.
Apart from exceptional circumstances which could decide his love destiny otherwise, he's simply eager to get married to a nice woman, who'll be the mother of his children, who'll accept his small strange habits, and who will more or less wear the trousers. He'll be marvelously "maternal" with his children, knowing how to play with them and understanding them. He'll be very attentive to his children' education, trying to inculcate them such moral principles as he himself is very much attached to. For him, having a woman, a house, little blond heads, a pipe, and slippers represents the ideal status. He'll dream about traveling, maybe without ever leaving the port! As a matter of fact, his couple, his home are of paramount importance to him - he needs this sentimental and emotional base to assure his stability.
Full of tenderness, affection and romanticism, he gives himself, when in love, without reserve, and with sincerity, innocence and passion. But in return, he needs an enormous amount of love that must be clearly shown. With his partner he'll be full of tact, delicacy and thoughtfulness. But he also can show himself possessive and jealous.
How to keep a Cancer man or male
An emotional and tender person, the Cancer man you love possesses a skin-deep sensitivity. It's why he needs to find ways of protecting himself from attacks of the outside world, which hurt him so much, even though he tries hard not to show his weakness. That's why he's so much attached to his family life, to his home, which constitute for him the coziest of all shelters.
Even though he often shows himself discreet and self-effacing in the work field, he's very different at home. Very often he wants to put himself into the driver's seat and make important family decisions. Don't dare to challenge this authority that he appropriates to himself.
Know that this overly anxious man needs to be reassured constantly. As what he dreads most is that you abandon him, he wants to hear you repeat tirelessly, day after day, that you still love him so much. Don't deprive him of such vital, reassuring repetitions!
Be attentive to your man as far as you can, especially during the periods when his hidden anxiety increases. Show him your unreserved affection. When he's confident, he'll lighten up completely and offer you all the treasures of love and tenderness that are in him.
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