
Here is the poem that I wrote for my 80 year-old father:
Do you have a granpa? Michael asked inquisitively to his playmateseated beside him in the sandbox. Of course, I have a granpa, Neal replied matter of factly. Everyone has a granpa! Not me, Michael sighed sadly. My granpa is in heaven. Well, Neal conjured after a moments thought, My granpa is very very old...and he can't play with me or anything. He mostly just sits in his chair and doesn't say very much. Neal continued... My mommy says that granpa used to be a big strong man, but he had a stroke, and that made him old. What else does your mommy say about your granpa?, Michael asked, thinking that he did not want a stroke to come and make him old. Neal spoke, as if in deep thought... Whenever my mommy is in the kitchen washing dishes, she tells me lots of stories about granpa....
When granpa was younger,
my mommy would say,
He'd sit high on his tractor
most all of the day,
In the fields he would plant
corn and sugar cane,
peas and potatoes
hominy and grain.
Sometimes he would climb
to the top of a tree,
to pick peaches and pears,
and even apples for me.
Down he would jump
all the way from the top,
and land on his feet
with a great big plop.
He had a big boat,
which was silvery-gray;
down the creek he would row
every Saturday...
With a bucket of worms
and a fishing pole,
He'd look here and there
for the best fishing hole.
In the sawmill he would toil
late into the night,
making old-fashioned bread trays
with all of his might.
And when he was finished,
he would give them away
to family and friends
who passed by that day.
In the Post Office he also worked
sorting the mail,
for thirty long years,
without fail.
And when I would visit,
He'd let me come in
and sit at his desk
to play pretend.
Now granpa is older,
my mommy would say sadly
He walks with a cane,
because his leg is hurt badly.
And when he talks,
his voice sounds slurred,
so sometimes he sits
without saying a word.
His arm is in a sling
because he had a bad stroke
so remember when you see him,
his arm is not broke.
Now, everything he does,
he does with one hand ---
like tying his shoe
or washing a pan.
He doesn't climb trees
or go fishing anymore,
or work in the sawmill,
like he did before.
He sits in his chair
and watches T.V.,
or goes for a walk,
and looks up at the trees.
I know you would like
for him to play ball
but you see, he cannot,
because he might fall.
Although, if you'd ask,
I'm sure that he would
tell you a story
about his boyhood.
And even though your grandpa
is very, very old,
little boys and girls
he still loves to hold.
So the next time you see him,
please don't be scared,
just climb up on his lap
and show him that you care.